Infidelity is one of the biggest marriage destroyers and a lot of times, even the strongest of marriages can’t survive an affair. Anybody can be cheated on, but that’s the reality of the situation.
In this day and age, you can locate get caught cheating in the easiest ways. If you’ve seen Snapchat’s news update, it is literally tracking your every move. It’s your avatar but it’s showing your location, when you’re driving, when you’re at the airport and if you’re at someone else’s house that you said you weren’t at.
We don’t say we agree with cheating, but we do have a certain list of rules that you can follow to be successful at cheating;
- If you live with your significant other, never cheat at your house. If you cannot afford to take your side-chick to a hotel, you should not be cheating. Obviously, use cash and never your credit cards. It leaves a paper trail.
- Never get marks on your body. It is virtually impossible to explain to your partner why you have hickeys and scratches all over your back that she didn’t put there.
- Emails, text messages and call logs, delete all of them. You don’t need them. Delete them immediately.
- Silence is golden. Do not run your mouth about what you do. The only person you can trust to keep your secret is YOU. Shut up and don’t tell your BFFs.
- Be honest with the person you’re cheating with. You need to be straight up with them from the jump. You need to tell them your entire situation and what kind of relationship that you’re trying to have with them.
- Execute a plan of communication. You need to establish when, where and how you are going to talk.
- Create a solid alibi. There are two things that come with a good solid alibi. One, never ever use your friends. Two, always have some kind of truth in your alibi.
If you don’t want to be in trouble and you value respect, don’t cheat!
Threesome is something that, when you think, can only happen to movies and porn videos, and not really in real life. Though some kind of a sexploit, threesome does exist and there are people who do it for adventure, fun, and some personal relationship reason.
You may say it’s a gross thing to do, you’re watching your partner exploring someone else while turning on you after. There are also situations when threesome gone wrong because of jealousy and other factors. In all honesty, there are real advantages in doing threesome if partners are in a strong and happy relationship. Otherwise, if the reason for threesome is the other one is not sexually contented with their current sex life, ring the fire alarm because there might be a burning fire in the end.
Communication Is Key
Having a threesome is not like sharing your candy with a third person. There must be a communication why it should happen. Remember, not everyone is willing to share their stuff. Explain to your partner why there is a need for threesome.
Have A Reality Check
Fantasizing about having sex with someone you do not know together with your partner is a hardcore fantasy, but it’s quite not always real in reality. Have a reality check, do you and your partner really like it? To self check, watch porn movies with threesome theme. Does the movie excite both of you, and vice versa? Once you are both decided, find someone who will be the third party.
Get A Stranger
Consider someone who is not your friend or not in your circle of friends. A stranger who knows nothing about both of you is preferable to avoid jealousy, attachment, and awkwardness. There are strangers who are always up for threesome, let’s say you can find on the internet. Sense the vibe first, set a coffee or snack date with the stranger to see if you have the chemistry.
Nowadays, infidelity has become so rampant that people think it is normal to do it. Truth is, it is not normal, and it will never be normal. Still, most men think that it is a good way to keep their mind of an unhappy marriage. Their side chicks are getting more and more proud of themselves. It is because they feel more advantageous than the original wife.
However, it is not all the time that these side chicks are getting all the advantage. There were times when they are feeling left out. It is probably because their man is not paying attention to them already. If a man is committed enough to keep his side chick happy, he will do anything for her.
Here are some ways to keep your side chick happy all the time.
Never, ever let her know that she is a side chick
A side chick is only proud of herself because she knows that she is the only one for her man. But once she knew that she is not the only one, she will definitely perform an outrage.
Don’t build up expectations that you cannot do
This is something that you should avoid if you are not ready to commit full time with her. A woman may expect a lot from you if your action tells her that you want to level up.
Isolate her from places where your wife can possibly see you
Because of your side chick, you must do a lot of hiding. Your wife will probably do anything to see if her gut feeling is right about you having another woman.
Give her attention, but not too much as your wife
Give her gifts, take her shopping, and spend a few days of vacation with her. It will keep her occupied, and she will trust you even more.