How To Discuss Having A Threesome

Threesome is something that, when you think, can only happen to movies and porn videos, and not really in real life. Though some kind of a sexploit, threesome does exist and there are people who do it for adventure, fun, and some personal relationship reason.

You may say it’s a gross thing to do, you’re watching your partner exploring someone else while turning on you after. There are also situations when threesome gone wrong because of jealousy and other factors. In all honesty, there are real advantages in doing threesome if partners are in a strong and happy relationship. Otherwise, if the reason for threesome is the other one is not sexually contented with their current sex life, ring the fire alarm because there might be a burning fire in the end.

Communication Is Key

Having a threesome is not like sharing your candy with a third person. There must be a communication why it should happen. Remember, not everyone is willing to share their stuff. Explain to your partner why there is a need for threesome.

Have A Reality Check

Fantasizing about having sex with someone you do not know together with your partner is a hardcore fantasy, but it’s quite not always real in reality. Have a reality check, do you and your partner really like it? To self check, watch porn movies with threesome theme. Does the movie excite both of you, and vice versa? Once you are both decided, find someone who will be the third party.

Get A Stranger

Consider someone who is not your friend or not in your circle of friends. A stranger who knows nothing about both of you is preferable to avoid jealousy, attachment, and awkwardness. There are strangers who are always up for threesome, let’s say you can find on the internet. Sense the vibe first, set a coffee or snack date with the stranger to see if you have the chemistry.